OK so we are going to get personal with this post. It's not about any experience I have had recently or anything like that. It's about being "Sexy".
I am so far from what you would call your average hot girl. I am not a size 2, my boobs are big but they are not perky like the girls who have beautiful small boobs or implants. I also do not have just your average blond or brown hair. Nope, I dye it almost black with bright red highlights in it. I have never thought of myself as sexy or beautiful...eh, cute maybe.
What I do know is that it catches me off guard when anybody does call me sexy. We have a profile on a swingers site. I would link you to it but I am not ready to show any pics of myself yet. When a new couple is interested in us I almost think to myself, why? Meeting them in person is even worse. I have a fear that they are going to think I look nothing like my photos.
So what is the normal for what sexy is? Do some people just have an aura of sexiness about them, even if they are not what you would think a normal beautiful women looks like? For me a lot of things make people sexy. A sense of humor is really sexy. A dominate man or women is sexy. A knowing look between two people is sexy. The way someone says your name is sexy. I guess sexy is whatever you think it is.
I think sexiness is an attitude and self presentation. Clearly you've got it and people see it.
ReplyDeleteSexiness is primarily in your attitude in my opinion. I love the description of your hair. I like the dark hair with a bright color thrown in there like that. I do hope you decide to post pictures. My wife has large breasts too that sag. Hey gravity does that. I still love to play with them and think they are just beautiful. Big boobs are going to droop. Oh well. I think size 2 women are too skinny for my taste. I like women with curves. You know about a size 10-12. My slut is bigger than that and I still think she is sexy as hell, even when she doesn't.
ReplyDeleteThank you both for your comments. I really appreciate them. When I started this blog I really didn't think anyone would read it. :)
ReplyDeleteI enjoy your blog so far, and I look forward to hearing a lot more. I would also love to see the outfit you wore for your husband the other night. Keep these sexy stories coming Cherrie.
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Well I did break down and posted some pics. I figure if someone I know sees them I can always flip it on them and ask them why they were reading D/s blogs in the first place. ;)
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